Pain Does Not Teach
We’ve got this notion that people — kids, especially — need to suffer a little bit when they do something wrong, so that next time, they’ll think, “Last time I suffered. I don’t think I’ll do that again.”
We’ve got this notion that people — kids, especially — need to suffer a little bit when they do something wrong, so that next time, they’ll think, “Last time I suffered. I don’t think I’ll do that again.”
The other day we went for a drive toward Mount Hood. I was feeling sick, so I stayed in the car when the family got out to explore the woods in the snow. But they were gone a long time, so …
Why do I imagine blogging would help with the loneliness? It’s not a conscious thought, more an impulse. Open the browser. Find a beautiful photo. Create something—maybe something other people will find. Something that will tell them, when they find …
I see in myself a holding back. I see in myself a constriction, an inability to relax and experience … a fear. Of what am I afraid? That if I let go, nothing will be. That if I let go, there will …